The person is unaware they are keeping secrets from themselves, and this is why they are unable to stop lying and why they habitually keep doing things the wrong way.
This part of their personality that needs to survive becomes a Bitch or a Bastard this is where the term the beast within comes from. If the individual does not accept this part of themselves they will mutate into a beast through numerous incarnations going to denser lower level planets, this is where the hu--man race is going.
This is why the individual feels uncomfortable in their own skin.We hurt ourselves by pretending to Love/Like our Hates/Dislikes, and this is how physical pain is manifested.We become Bitches/Bastards to be resilient to the harsh Life of survival to get through. It hasn't got anything to do with Love. Love will not get you through when there is no food to eat, and you have to starve days,maybe weeks before you can eat again.
The hu-man being is an animal a beast, with the personality of a Bitch or a Bastard.
The beast within us likes to be hurt, doing the same old bull-shit in relationships.
They believe by hurting themselves they are killing the beast within, this is a lie.
The Bitch/Bastard becomes more dominate, and this personality eventually takes over their Life.We hurt more when we stop others from hurting us, the only solution is to ask yourself "Why am I hurting myself"
Once the individual becomes aware of their own hidden secrets, they will be able to always tell the truth, always be happy experiencing Joy all the time.