The message given out is "I am Powerless"
Asking for help without solutions is only making the situation worse by making the same old mistake.
Realising your own solutions and asking for help to make it happen is Powerful.
This is done by speaking to your Inner Being(s), you're in charge and your making things happen together. Your Inner Being(s) is making things happen energetically.
When you need to wait on God and Angels for answers, you're giving your power away.
Only children cry for help, adults instigate trouble and when the shit hits the fan. They go running to others to get them out of it and this is wrong.